If you are wanting to save your marriage, we will help you bring your best self to this crisis.
While you can’t directly change your spouse’s mind about working on the marriage, you can ask if your spouse will consider doing discernment counseling with you— not to fix the marriage but to see if it is fixable.
Discernment Counseling is a new tool thats different than couples counseling and is designed to help you and your partner get on the same page- whether to end the marriage or put real effort into fixing what’s broken.
Are you talking with friends or family members about potentially getting a divorce?
They may be taking sides: saying either that you should move on from your marriage now or that you should keep trying to make it work.
It’s hard to know where to get an objective perspective.